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Stole, shawl, pashmina: what the words mean

Three words used almost interchangeably - one is a shape, one is a size, one is a fibre. A short guide to what you are actually choosing.

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A teal-and-gold blend stole draped over the arm of a linen armchair beside a window

Stole, shawl, pashmina, scarf. The words get used almost interchangeably, and in part they are. Each one describes a piece of cloth worn over the shoulders. But every word carries its own shape, weight and way of falling.

Pashmina: the origin

Pashmina is, at root, a fibre: the fine fleece of a mountain goat from the Himalayas. Over time the word came to name the garment too, and today, when someone says pashmina, they usually mean a shawl from that family of cloths - often blended with silk or other fibres - rather than the pure fibre itself. Whatever the blend, the idea is the same: light, warm and able to fold down to almost nothing.

The shawl: the wide piece

A shawl is, above all, a matter of size. It is wide and long, made to wrap. You wear it open over a dress, crossed over a coat, or gathered at the elbow. It can be pashmina, wool, silk or a blend. The word speaks to how it is worn, not what it is made of.

Every word carries its own shape, weight and way of falling.

A red-and-gold checked stole worn long over one shoulder, in a colonnade

The stole: narrower, more defined

The stole is the narrowest of the three. It has a long, clean drape, and tends to go with a more dressed look: a dinner, a wedding, a cool evening over an occasion dress. You wear it loose over the shoulders, no knots, letting the cloth speak for itself.

How to choose

  • For everyday, over linen or a shirt: something light and soft, in a fine blend.
  • To wrap up and get warm: a wider, heavier weave.
  • For an occasion, over a dress: a narrow piece with a fine, clean drape.
  • For travel: whichever folds without creasing and weighs almost nothing.

At The Coco & Rose we choose each piece one by one, for its feel and the way it falls. The name matters less than that sense of it when you put it on.

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